Cohabitation agreement

In the modern world many couples are choosing to live together without getting married. This can be an acceptable arrangement for many couples however it is important that each individual legally protect their assets and financial obligations. This is where a cohabitation agreement is instrumental in protecting all parties involved.

What is a cohabitation agreement?

A cohabitation agreement, also known as a non-marital or living together contract, is a legal contract that formalises each parties responsibilities in their living arrangements. Additionally, it safeguards the rights of each cohabitant both during the relationship and it the event of its end, as these are not automatically conferred as they are in a marriage. This contract can cover elements like living expenses, debt management, property ownership, and maintenance provisions both during and after the relationship ends.

What should be included in a cohabitation agreement

While a cohabitation agreement can vary depending on the needs of the parties involved there are certain aspects that every cohabitation agreement should include. These are as follows:

  • Details: Include all details of the cohabitants including names, addresses, and contact information.

  • Start date: Specify the commencement date of the agreement to clearly define when it becomes effective.

  • Prior owned property: Clearly define how each individuals property will be divided in the case of separation, to ensure that each partners pre-existing assets are protected .

  • Shared property: Determine how assets acquired while together will be distributed in the case of separation. This can help prevent ugly and costly legal disputes.

  • Parental responsibilities: If there are children involved the agreement should outline custody arrangements, child support, and other child related matters.

  • Household costs: A cohabitation agreement should specify who is responsible for the various living expenses of the household. These can include rent, mortgage, utilities, internet costs, groceries and more.

  • Termination clause: This clause specifies under what conditions the agreement will terminate, such as marriage or mutual agreement to end the arrangements.

  • Review Clause: There should be regular reviews of the agreement to make provisions for changes in circumstances and assets over time.

It is important to note that a cohabitation agreement cannot include any illegal provisions. Additionally, this form of agreement is only binding upon you and your partner, and is not enforceable on any third parties.

Benefits of a cohabitation agreement

There are numerous benefits afforded to cohabitants by a cohabitation agreement. These include the following:

Asset Protection

The primary benefit of a cohabitation agreement is that it protects the assets of each individual. It does this by clearly defining who the owner of these assets are and how they are distributed in the event of a separation.

Peace of mind

A cohabitation agreement provides cohabitants with a clear understanding of their responsibilities and the responsibilities of their partner. This provides a certain peace of mind regarding their relationship and can help prevent misunderstandings and disputes.

Financial planning

This form of agreement allows both cohabitants to easily plan their finances as they often include stipulations on financial support, both during and after the relationship, and who is responsible for what debts. This certainty allows individuals to plan their finances better.

Avoid legal disputes

A cohabitation agreement helps prevent costly and time consuming legal disputes in the event of separation. This is because most factors that lead to disputes are covered in the agreement. Ensuring the separation can be amiable for both parties.

Obtain a cohabitation agreement

There are numerous aspects to consider when looking at getting a cohabitation agreement. That is why it is always best to consult a professional like Brune Attorneys. We will be able to assist you in crafting an agreement tailored to your and your partners unique situation and needs. All while ensuring that every legal requirement is met so you and your partner are protected no matter what happens in your relationship. So contact us today to reach a transparent and open understanding with your partner.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is it called when you live together but are not married? 

When two individuals live together but are not married, it is commonly referred to as cohabitation or a cohabiting relationship. In South Africa, cohabitation is recognized as a significant aspect of modern relationships, where couples choose to live together without formalizing their union through marriage.

What rights do I have when I split up with my partner?

In South Africa, the rights of individuals in cohabiting relationships are not as clearly defined as those of married couples. However, the law does recognize certain rights and protections for cohabiting partners, particularly if they have entered into a cohabitation agreement. Without such an agreement, the rights of each partner may be limited, and disputes over property, finances, and other matters can arise.

Is a relationship contract legally binding?

A relationship contract, also known as a cohabitation agreement or domestic partnership agreement, is a legal document that outlines the rights and responsibilities of cohabiting partners. While these contracts are not explicitly regulated by South African law, they can still be legally binding if certain conditions are met. To ensure enforceability, a relationship contract should be clear, comprehensive, and entered into voluntarily by both parties with full understanding and disclosure. However, if you are about to get married, it is advisable to get an antenuptial contract.

What are the benefits of cohabitation? 

Cohabitation offers several benefits for couples who choose to live together without getting married. Some of these benefits include:

  1. Flexibility: Cohabiting relationships allow couples to maintain their independence while sharing living expenses and responsibilities. They can tailor their arrangements to suit their individual preferences and needs without the formalities of marriage.

  2. Financial advantages: Sharing living costs, such as rent or mortgage payments, utilities, and groceries, can result in significant savings for cohabiting partners. This can be particularly beneficial in expensive urban areas where housing costs are high.

  3. Emotional support: Living together provides companionship, emotional support, and shared experiences, strengthening the bond between partners and fostering a sense of closeness and intimacy.

  4. Testing compatibility: Cohabitation allows couples to test their compatibility and assess their readiness for marriage or long-term commitment before making a formal commitment. It provides an opportunity to learn about each other’s habits, preferences, and communication styles in a shared living environment.

  5. Legal recognition: With a well-drafted cohabitation agreement, partners can clarify their rights and obligations regarding property ownership, financial support, and other important matters. This can provide a sense of security and peace of mind, reducing the risk of disputes and conflicts in the event of a breakup.

While cohabitation offers many advantages, it’s important for couples to understand the legal implications and consider entering into a cohabitation agreement to protect their interests and ensure clarity in their relationship. Consulting with a legal professional can provide guidance and assistance in drafting a comprehensive agreement that meets the needs of both partners.